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How to increase confidence level and self esteem?
I'm meddlesome in unsentimental recommendation or tips upon augmenting self certainty as well as self venerate in sold with guys. My friends as well as even strangers mostly discuss it me which I'm really flattering as well as intelligent though when we similar to a guy, we mostly don't have a certainty to hold in myself as well as finish up losing him for what is interpreted as miss of interest. How can we hold in myself more? we am able as well as have great friends, a complaint seems to begin when we similar to a guy. I've had a little great relations though not long ago appear to have been unhappy in a integrate of guys we dated.
Sadly, it's sort of a downward spiral. You lose self-confidence and it hits your self-esteem which lowers your confidence which lowers your self-esteem, etc.
Having been through the cycle before, my advice is that you need to take a moment and perform an honest self-assessment. In doing so, you need to put everything (and I mean everything) in your life under the microscope and figure out what stays and what has to go. It's not always easy, and you don't come out of it all smiles and grins. But, you should have a plan and (at the risk of sounding all Tony Robbins) the next step is to execute the plan. For me, it involved focusing on work and being a responsible adult (i.e., pay my bills, stop buying things I didn't need, and get into shape).
The idea being that you gain self-confidence when you reach the goals that you set for yourself; because once you learn that you can do things that you set your mind to do, you learn to trust yourself. Once you learn to trust yourself, you find that you can stop relying on others and that's when you have self-esteem.
What also helps is making sure that you have a solid support network. I'm going to be honest, that's not as easy as it sounds. You need to associate with people who don't have needless drama in their lives. If you have friends and family that drama just seems to go out of its way to then find, you need to reduce the amount of time you spend with those folks. Sometimes this can be painful or confusing, but unstable people are a wrecking ball for the self-esteem and confidence of others.
I hope that helps.
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LikeDislikeWell said frankmoore. I agree with your view. Self-esteem is the very core of our confidence, lose it and your confidence will be an all time low.
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